Lessons from the Big House

One Family’s Passage Through the History of the South

Frye Gaillard

With Nancy B. Gaillard

Lessons from the Big House

One Family’s Passage Through the History of the South

Frye Gaillard

With Nancy B. Gaillard

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Beginning in the South Carolina Low Country with his Huguenot ancestors who fled religious persecution in Europe, journalist-historian Frye Gaillard traces his family through the troubled, oppressive history of the South. Gaillard, who came of age during the civil rights years, shares the painful legacy of a family sometimes on the wrong side of that history. He writes of Capt. Peter Gaillard, who fought in the Revolutionary War (on both sides), and became a prosperous planter and slave-owner. The author follows the family story through the major events of Southern history-the Civil War, Reconstruction, and the civil rights revolution-to show how a family's identity was forged by privilege, hardship, and loss, and also by a moral reckoning that emerged slowly, inevitably over time. A powerful memoir that is sure to speak to the heart of every Southerner. Researched with Dr. Nancy Gaillard, educator and wife of the author.
However private its intent, this all too brief footnote to Southern history is for all of us, for to read it is to fare the challenge of a personal retrospective through the forgotten thickets and byways of our history. The cobwebs brushed away in the process may leave us with clearer vision of who we are and why...

—C. Eric Lincoln,, author of The Avenue, Clayton City

Lessons from the Big House is an affectionate yet thoroughly honest account of a family whose history is woven into the fabric of the South. Frye Gaillard is a superb storyteller. No other writer I know understands better the special joy and burden of being Southern, nor tells of it with such grace and eloquence.

—Robert Inman, author of Home Fires Burning

A story everyone who whines about family values should be compelled to write-and one that those who truly cherish those values should exult in reading.

—Will Campbell, author of Brother to a Dragonfly

Just as his 100-year-old grandfather gave it to him long ago, Frye Gaillard now passes on to us a priceless gift: the universal story of an American family's odyssey through time and place. It is truly our story, for we have all been on this journey-but seldom have we been fortunate enough to have a scribe like Gaillard to tell us how and why it happened and what it all meant.

—John Egerton, author of Generations

About the Author/Editor

Frye Gaillard (Author)
FRYE GAILLARD is the writer-in-residence in the English and history departments at the University of South Alabama. He is the author of twenty books, including With Music and Justice for All: Some Southerners and Their Passions; Cradle of Freedom: Alabama and the Movement That Changed America, winner of the Lillian Smith Book Award; The Dream Long Deferred: The Landmark Struggle for Desegregation in Charlotte, North Carolina, winner of the Gustavus Myers Award; and If I Were a Carpenter, the first independent, book-length study of Habitat for Humanity.

Nancy B. Gaillard (With)
Nancy Gaillard was a lifelong educator who worked as a public school teacher and principal in Charlotte, North Carolina. She earned her doctorate in education at the University of Alabama and served as an assistant professor in the College of Education at the University of South Alabama. She collaborated on two books with her husband, Frye Gaillard.